Being Honest

I am trying to be as honest as I can with this process of trying to find my next husband. Honest with my self and honest with the guys I am meeting. So today after going on three dates with a guy and having him never once try to flirt or kiss me I told him that I felt like we were more friends then anything else. I didn’t want to lead him on and was hoping that we would be able to be friends especially since we hadn’t done anything romantic and he said that we should just “let it go” and next time he will move a little faster.

I didn’t have any romantic feelings for the guy but it’s still hard to lose a friend and lose some one who liked you. It sounds stupid but the little fact of knowing that there is someone out there who wants to be with you…when your going through a divorce is sometimes your only saving grace at staying sane. It’s also nice to just have some one to talk to at night.

Being honest sucks but if it was the other way around I would want the guy to tell me if he wasn’t feeling it and if it was the other way around I understand why he doesn’t want to be friends…it just sucks.