Is Chris working for me?

He has looked into trying to buy my house for me so I can stay in it. WTF?!? First of all who does that? And second of all why would you tell me that? I feel like he is trying to rush and all we do is have serous talks about the future or talk about our past issues with ex's. I just want to have fun. I don't want all this drama and stress. It's only been 2 1/2 weeks and he has told me how he wants to marry me, that he has already looked at engagement rings, has thought about us moving in together, that girlfriend isn't a serious enough title for me, and that he has looked into buying my house for me. WHO DOES THAT??? He has freaked out multiple times about "walls" and him being scared I'm going to leave him. YES you should be scared of that because I don't do emotionally unstable people and you sir are emotional. I am tired of always being the guy in the relationship as far as emotional state. However he fits everything else on my list of what I'm looking for in a partner... minus the fact he has 3 kids, has co-signed on an ex's vehicle and chews tobacco (which he is trying to quit). Maybe I need to make a new rule where he can't say anything about marrying me or living with me or being with me forever for a while...? What am I talking about he isn't going to go for that. Nope he will freak out and we will have another emotional intense talk.